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请办了这些渣渣,还校园一片净土

雨中红莲 2020-08-17


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我们先来看看中山大学教师王晓玮网课翻车,直播与3情妇聊骚,其中一人编号是10这事儿,来源头条号斑马大观察:
7月8日,中山大学新闻网发布通报称,针对网传海洋与科学学院教授王晓玮网课期间发表不当言论,学校成立了调查组进行调查,目前学校已经停止了他的教学工作。
事情发生在7月6日,海洋学院教师王晓玮给学生直播上网课,课间休息期间并未关闭直播,直播间弹出了王晓玮的微信聊天框。他同时和三名女性"聊骚",并发表不当言论。随后,聊天内容被陆陆续续散布到了网上。目前,中山大学官网已查询不到王晓玮相关资料。

言论不堪入目
7月6日王晓玮在直播课的课间,弹出了微信聊天框,分别和三名女性进行了聊天。微信备注名为"南沙地产8号"的女性发了两条消息,分别是"牙疼""想咬人",随后王晓玮回复"今天不行,今天比较忙""你肚子应该开始大了吧!”。
接着弹出微信备注名为"南沙地产10号"的消息框,王晓玮给该女子发消息称"我十二点下班,可能开车过去会稍微晚一点点",截图显示王晓玮即将发送的消息为"要不我们在珠影先吃饭,找个酒店,然后……"
据该校学生爆料称,学校的林琳约王晓玮在广州榻吃饭,王晓玮回复:什么时候都可以。
期间有同学假借问题提醒王晓玮,而他并没有回复。随后腾讯课堂又有同学提示:"老师我们能看到你微信窗口",随后同学们疯狂送花。

调离教学岗位
王晓玮在直播期间的不当行为构成了重大教学事故,校方表示严重违反教学纪律,给予其调离教学岗位的处罚。
据悉,王晓玮曾于2006年至2007年期间在香港城市大学深圳研究院做研究助理;2007年至2009年在该校生物与化学系做研究助理。
2010年,其获得中山大学博士学位,随后两年从事博士后研究工作。
2012年9月进入中山大学海洋学院工作。中山大学海洋科学学院官方帐号曾介绍王晓玮为副教授、博士生导师,学科专业为环境化学,研究方向是新型有机污染物及其环境行为。
本该是天之骄子,有着大好前途,却在直播中暴露了自己的三观和品性。震惊之余也让人不禁疑问,为何高学历教授会做出这样的事情呢?目前,王晓玮始终没有发声对所做行为进行解释。
网友:私生活混乱,毁三观
王晓玮教学翻车的事情多次登上热搜,网友也纷纷对其进行了评论。不少网友直言"毁三观",戏称其不配为教授。
此外,网友曝光的截图中有该校张姓教师的一段话,他提醒各位同学不要将视频发出来,"有事好商量,自己欣赏算了。"并强调事关各位成绩,希望大家能以大局为重。


王晓玮混乱的私生活让人觉得惊愕,为人师表竟会做出如此行为,聊天框中出现了南沙地产8号和南沙地产10号,是否还存在南沙地产9号呢?又或者还有前面7号吗?
学校并不干涉个人私生活,但王晓玮一次"直播翻车"暴露人性、品行,并给学生造成不当影响。
作为教师,一言一行都会被放大,师者"教书育人、传道授业",倘若一个老师的三观品性违背师德师风,难以想象会给学生带来怎样的影响。
面对如此行为,中山大学在通报中表示了自己的态度:学校对违反教学纪律和师德师风的行为,始终坚持零容忍,一经查实,绝不姑息。


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再来荐读时评人宋二关于相关话题的一篇评论《谁能还我一片校园净土?》,来源窟窿山(kulongshan22):

高考的时候,我都不忍心说丧气的话,现在高考结束了,忍不住了。
 
大学校园啊,真是乌烟瘴气、不堪入目,我不知道大家寒窗苦读考个那巴玩意有嘛意思,尤其是女孩子,还不如直接送窑子里干净。
 
当然,现在也没有好的窑子,砖窑煤窑的一头扎进去再出来就黑脸白牙的,实在不是女孩子们能去的地方。
 
大学,也实在不是女孩子们能去的地方。
 
为什么呢?你看,中山大学出了重大教学事故。


三天前,王教授在线授课,这可不是个一般人,是个三头六臂的能人,一边授课一边和女人们聊天,但不知怎么滴,这次没弄好,聊天记录都弹了出来,弹到屏幕上了,被学生们全看到了,炸锅了。
 
聊的什么呢?和好多女的约吃饭,吃完饭,再去酒店……从页面上可以看出,女的都被编了号,有的到10号了,不知道这些女的里边,有没有他的学生,倒有一个是孕妇。


孕妇是8号,她说:“牙疼,想咬人。”王教授回说:“今天不行,今天比较忙。你肚子应该开始大了吧,还能做吗?怕压坏你。”
 

看看这些大学老师,天天都在干嘛呢,上课期间也不安生,三心二意,心猿意马,广采花蓓,这能教好学生吗?


做学术也不行。


前一阵子传出,清华医学院院长,一个很牛叉叉的人,24篇论文造假。面对质疑,董院长是怎么说的呢,他说:“没有恶意造假。”
 
造假特么还分善恶?
 
那石头分不分公母?冰雹分不分老幼?洪水分不分贵贱?
 
学术造假的新闻很多,时不时就会遮不住,捂不住,冒出来,拱出来,之所以这么多,是因为这些人都和董院长一样,没了廉耻和荣辱,只有功利和专营。

他们丢人已经丢到国外了!华尔街日报刚刚曝出,121篇论文造假,作者全部来自中国。

从2017年到2020年,这三四年,他们就被发现121篇论文造假,都是关于癌症的研究性论文。奇怪的是他们属于不同的、甚至毫不相关的课题组,但论文中却出现了很多相同的图片,甚至图片的注释也完全相同。就这,就发表出来了,也不怕被人发现,可见他们一贯地粗制滥造,互相抄袭,批量生产。



华尔街日报说:“他们分布在山东省、福建省、河南省等多个省份约50个不同城市的不同单位、不同课题组。”

看到没,山东,福建,河南。

领头造假三大神。

应该是三大省。

这一阵子,山东冒名顶替,挺有名;福建的莆田系,一直有名;我是河南的,我不知道河南什么有名,有一阵子也就偷偷窖井盖什么的,算是小偷小摸,怎么一下子,也搞起高级的行当了呢,学术造假?

我真丢不起这个人。

总之,大学啊,学术啊,研究啊,该死哪死哪去吧。



中小学又怎么样呢?


“浅草才能没马蹄”的我都不说,我直接上“绿杨阴里白沙堤”。

7月7号晚上,广东惠州一个镇子里的一个小学,一个老师被很多学生家长揪住,大家情绪激动,要手撕了这个老师。


原因是这个老师可能猥亵诱J了很多小孩子,有说有20多个,最大的12岁。


警察到现场也不行,阻挡不住家长们暴打老师。

恋童癖!

招聘老师,招到一个恋童癖可真够噩梦的,家长和小孩一辈子做噩梦。



说到这里,想起那个一审被判了五年但不服上诉的富商王振华,他也是一个恋童癖,虽然他的律师帮他说,他嫖娼,16岁以下的绝对不碰,但我知道他就是个恋童癖。

那时候我就想,商人癖,这已经很可怕了,他们是有钱人啊,有钱能使磨推鬼,那还不想癖谁癖谁,劈成两半,撕成碎片,撑死了五年,五年出来,还是一块好癖。

可没想到,有人癖进校园了,小学老师也这么癖,相对来说,老师不算很有钱,但危害却比王振华这些人要剧烈得多。


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校园的其他事还有必要再说吗?对了,常州的那个优秀的袁老师被处理了,警告和降级。


6月4号,小学五年级的缪缪,上完她的作文课就跳楼了,课堂上到底发生了什么不好说,但袁老师很正能量地收过缪缪家长500元红包,去年还很正义感爆棚地打过缪缪耳光,这些事,杠杠地。

也许,袁老师还可以站在讲台上讲她认为的正能量,估计再也不敢收红包了。


但其他的广大的老师呢?

铜臭化!

我早就说过,虽有很多好老师坚守,但也有很多老师三个化了:铜臭化、犬儒化、鹰犬化。


铜臭化,我已经讲明白了,袁老师是资深代表,至于犬儒化和鹰犬化,我就不详细说了。

可悲的是,又多了一个化,畜牲化。

广东猥亵诱J很多小孩子的这个老师,就是畜牲化。
 
谁能还我一片校园,让这校园是一片净土,让这片土上有真正的老师,让这些老师培育自由之花、思想之果。


让这花和果,润我华夏、救我中华。


50. All you can do is to try your best. Even with those small steps, you're closer to your goal than you were yesterday. 我们能做的只是拼尽全力,即使迈出的步子再小,也比昨天要更接近自己的目标。51. A smile is the shortest distance between two people. 微笑是人与人之间最短的距离。52. Do or do not. There is no try. 要么做,要么滚!没有试试看这一说。53. Courage is being afraid but going on anyhow. 勇气就是虽感恐惧,但仍会前行。54. A man can be destroyed but not defeated. 人可以被毁灭,但不可以被打败。55. A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery while on a detour. 真正快乐的人是那种在走弯路时也不忘享受风景的人。56. No dream is too big, and no dreamer is too small. 梦想再大也不嫌大,追梦的人再小也不嫌小。57. It doesn't matter how many times you fail. What matters is how many times you stand up and try again. 失败多少次不重要,重要的是你能重新站起来多少次,并且继续前行。58. Silence is the most powerful cry. 沉默是最有力的呐喊。《美丽人生》 59. A little consideration, a little thought for others makes all the difference. 一点点体贴,一点点为他人着想,会让一切都不一样。60. Stop waiting for things to happen.Go out and make them happen. 别指望事情会自然发生,行动起来,让它们变成可能!61. Don't look forward to tomorrow, don't miss yesterday, to grasp today. 不憧憬明天,不留念昨天,只把握今天。62. Now we don't call it alive. It's just not to die. 我们现在不叫活着,这只是没有死去。《疯狂原始人》 63. You can change your life if you want to. Sometimes you have to be hard on yourself, but you can change it completely. 有志者事竟成。有时虽劳其筋骨,但命运可以彻底改变。《唐顿庄园》 64. Time will bring a surprise, if you believe. 时间会带来惊喜,如果你相信的话。《浮生物语》 65. What others think is not important . How you feel about yourself is all that matters. 别人怎么想并不重要,你怎么看自己才是关键。66. Don't cry because it is over,smile because it happened. 不要因为结束而哭泣,微笑吧,因为你曾经拥有。67. Tomorrow is never clear. Our time is here. 明天是未知的,我们还是享受此刻吧!《摇滚夏令营》 68. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all. 生活要么大胆尝试,要么什么都不是。69. Pursue excellence and success will follow. 追求卓越,成功自然来。《三傻大闹宝莱坞》 70. Climb mountains not so the world can see you, but so you can see the world. 爬上山顶并不是为了让全世界看到你,而是让你看到整个世界。71. Every step towards your dream today is a step away from your regret tomorrow. 今日为梦想所付出的每一份努力都会减少明日的一份后悔。72. It's never too late to be what you might have been. 勇敢做自己,永远都不迟。(乔治·艾略特) 73. It's time to start living the life you've imagined. 是时候开始过自己想要的生活了!95. How can men succumb to force? 男人怎么能屈服于“武力”之下?《海贼王》 96. Life is like live TV show. There is no rehearsal. 人生没有彩排,只有现场直播。97. Dress shabbily and they remember the dress; dress impeccably and they remember the woman. 穿着破旧,人们记住衣服;穿着无瑕,人们则记住衣服里的女人。(Coco Chanel) 98. Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things. And no good thing ever dies. 希望是一件好事,也许是人间至善,而美好的事永不消逝。《肖申克的救赎》 99. There are so many beautiful reasons to be happy. 有太多太多美好的理由让你笑对生活。100. Where the more different you are, the better. 你们之间越是不同,越好。(Glee) 101. I'm only brave when I have to be. Being brave doesn't mean you go looking for trouble. 我只在必要时才勇敢,勇敢并不代表你要到处闯祸。《狮子王》 102. Behind every successful man there's a lot of unsuccessful years. 每个牛B的成功者都经历过苦B的岁月。(鲍博.布朗) 103. If you want something done, do it yourself. 靠谁都不如靠自己。《第五元素》 104. Life is a wonderful journey. Make it your journey and not someone else's. 生命是一段精彩旅程,要活的有自己的样子,而不是别人的影子。105. No matter how many mistakes you make or how slowly you progress, you are already ahead of those who never tried. 无论你犯了多少错,或者进步得有多慢,你都走在了那些不曾尝试的人的前面。106. Some things are so important that they force us to overcome our fears. 总有些更重要的事情,赋予我们打败恐惧的勇气。107. Say to yourself: "No matter how many obstacles I encounter in life, I will do all that I can to complete the whole course." 请对自己说:无论生活之路上会遇到多少障碍,我会竭尽所能地跑完这一程。108. No cross, no crown. 不经历风雨,怎么见彩虹。109. Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value. 与其努力成功,不如努力成为有价值的人。(爱因斯坦) 110. Remember when life's path is steep to keep your mind even. 记住:当人生很苦逼的时候,你要保持淡定。111. If you're brave enough to say GOODBYE, life will reward you with a new HELLO. 只要你勇敢地说出再见,生活一定会给你一个新的开始。112. Sometimes the right path is not the easiest one. 对的那条路,往往不是最好走的。113. Just trust yourself, then you will know how to live. 只要相信自己,你就会懂得如何去生活。114. In life it's not where you go. It's who you travel with. 生命中,重要的不是你去哪里,而是与谁同行。115. Life is like a rainbow. You don't always know what's on the other side, but you know it's there. 生活像一道彩虹,你不知道另一端通向哪里,但你会知道,它总是在那里。116. When the world says,"Give up!"Hope whispers,"Try it one more time." 当全世界都在说“放弃”的时候,希望却在耳边轻轻地说:“再试一次吧”!117. I don't care about other questions and I just try to be myself. 我不在乎别人的质疑,我只会做好自己。118. Attempt doesn't necessarily bring success, but giving up definitely leads to failure. 努力不一定成功,但放弃一定失败!119. The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today. 对明天最好的准备就是今天做到最好。120. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart. 你已经一无所有,没有什么道理不顺心而为。(乔布斯) 121. Life is a journey, one that is much better traveled with a companion by our side. 人生是一场旅程,我们最好结伴同行。122. Sometimes you have to fall before you can fly. 有时候,你得先跌下去,才能飞起来。123. If you are able to appreciate beauty in the ordinary, your life will be more vibrant. 如果你擅于欣赏平凡中的美好,你的生活会更加多姿多彩。124. Be who you are, and never ever apologize for that! 坚持做自己,并永远不要为此而后悔!125. Consider the bad times as down payment for the good times. Hang in there. 把苦日子当做好日子的首付,坚持就是胜利!126. Do not pray for easy lives, pray to be stronger. 与其祈求生活平淡点,还不如祈求自己强大点。127. Everybody can fly without wings when they hold on to their dreams. 坚持自己的梦想,即使没有翅膀也能飞翔。128. There is no such thing as a great talent without great will power. 没有伟大的意志力,便没有雄才大略。129. You can't change your situation. The only thing that you can change is how you choose to deal with it. 境遇难以改变,你能改变的唯有面对它时的态度。130. Whatever is worth doing at all is worth doing well. 凡是值得做的事,就值得做好。131. Perfection is not just about control.It's also about letting go. 完美不仅在于控制,也在于释放。《黑天鹅》 132. Dream is what makes you happy, even when you are just trying. 梦想就是一种让你感到坚持就是幸福的东西。133. Never frown,because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. 别愁眉不展,因为你不知道谁会爱上你的笑容。134. It's easy once you know how. 一旦你明白,就会很简单。135. In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different. 要做到不可替代,就要与众不同。136. I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate. 宁愿失败地做你爱做的事情,也不要成功地做你恨做的事情。(George Burns) 137. Don't hide. Run! You'll make it to tomorrow. 别躲避,奔跑吧,你就会找到明天。138. Life comes with many challenges.The ones that should not scare us are the ones we can take on and take control of. 生活充满了挑战,唯有勇敢面对并自我掌控,我们才能克服恐惧。(安吉丽娜·朱莉) 139. Life doesn't just happen to you; you receive everything in your life based on what you've given. 一切发生在你身上的都不是碰巧。你获得什么,在于你付出了什么。140.You are more beautiful than you think. 你,要比你想象的更美丽。141. Throughout life's complications, you should maintain such a sense of elegance. 不管生活有多不容易,你都要守住自己的那一份优雅。142. When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on so long in the first place. 每当你想要放弃的时候,就想想是为了什么才一路坚持到现在。143. Enjoy your youth.You'll never be younger than you are at this very moment. 好好享受青春,你再也不会有哪个时刻会比此时更年轻了。144. You'd better bring, cause I'll bring every I've got it. 你最好全神贯注,因为我定会全力以赴!145. Take time to enjoy the simple things in life. 慢慢享受生活中的简单。146. As long as you are still alive, you will definitely encounter the good things in life. 只要活着就一定会遇上好事。147. Hold on, it gets better than you know. 挺住,事情会比你想像中要好!148. If you are fine,the sun will always shine. 你若安好,便是晴天。149. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. 磨难会让你更强大。150. Every life deserves our respect. 每一个生命都应该被尊重。151. The best feeling in the world is when you know your heart is smiling. 世间最美好的感受,就是发现自己的心在笑。152. Don't ever underestimate the heart of a champion. 永远不要低估一颗冠军的心。(Rudy Tomjanovich) 153. There is nothing permanent except change. 唯一不变的是变化。154. The difference between successful persons and others is that they really act. 成功者和其他人最大的区别就是,他们真正动手去做了。155. Don't follow the crowd, let the crowd follow you. 不要随波逐流,要引领潮流。(Margaret Thatcher) 156. People pay in advance for a coffee meant for someone who cannot afford a warm beverage. 人们提前买咖啡,让付不起的人享受温暖。157. No one is born a genius.Just keep on doing what you like and that itself is a talent. 哪有什么天才!坚持做你喜欢的事情,这本身就是一种天赋。(大野智) 158. The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only one page. 世界是一本书,不旅行的人只读了其中一页。159. You can create something more glorious than the championship. 你可以创造比冠军更荣耀的事。160. You never get a second chance to make a first impression. 永远没有第二次机会,给人留下第一印象。161. You can always be a worse version of "him", or better version of yourself. 你不是要做一个单纯优秀的人,而是要做一个不可替代的人。162. Give every day the chance to become the most beautiful day of your life. 让每一天都有机会成为你人生中最美好的一天。163. Honesty is the best policy. 做人以诚信为本。164. To a crazy ship all winds are contrary. 对于一只漫无目标的船而言,任何方向的风都是逆风。165. The outer world you see is a reflection of your inner self. 你看到什么样的世界,你就拥有什么样的内心。166. Strike while the iron is hot. 趁热打铁。167. Knowing what you cannot do is far more important than knowing what you are capable of. 知道自己不能做什么远比知道自己能做什么重要。168. People cry, not because they're weak. It's because they've been strong for too long. 哭泣,不代表脆弱,只因坚强了太久。169. Don't let yesterday use up too much of today. 别留念昨天了,把握好今天吧。(Will Rogers) 170. If you are not brave enough, no one will back you up. 你不勇敢,没人替你坚强。171. If you don't build your dream, someone will hire you to build theirs. 如果你没有梦想,那么你只能为别人的梦想打工。172. Beauty is all around, if you just open your heart to see. 只要你给自己机会,你会发现你的世界可以很美丽。173. The difference in winning and losing is most often...not quitting. 赢与输的差别通常是--不放弃。(华特·迪士尼) 174. I am ordinary yet unique. 我很平凡,但我独一无二。175. I like people who make me laugh in spite of myself. 我喜欢那些让我笑起来的人,就算是我不想笑的时候。176. Image a new story for your life and start living it. 为你的生命想一个全新剧本,并去倾情出演吧!177. I'd rather be a happy fool than a sad sage. 做个悲伤的智者,不如做个开心的傻子。178. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. 未来属于那些相信梦想之美的人。(埃莉诺·罗斯福) 179. Even if you get no applause, you should accept a curtain call gracefully and appreciate your own efforts. 即使没有人为你鼓掌,也要优雅的谢幕,感谢自己的认真付出。180. Don't let dream just be your dream. 别让梦想只停留在梦里。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 没有笑声的一天是浪费了的一天。(卓别林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧,见的世面多了,你会发现原来在意的那些结根本算不了什么。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功关键都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 开心一点吧,管它会怎样。185. A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow. 今天的好计划胜过明天的完美计划。186. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'! 一切皆有可能!“不可能”的意思是:“不,可能。”(奥黛丽·赫本) 187. Life isn't fair, but no matter your circumstances, you have to give it your all. 生活是不公平的,不管你的境遇如何,你只能全力以赴。188. No matter how hard it is, just keep going because you only fail when you give up. 无论多么艰难,都要继续前进,因为只有你放弃的那一刻,你才输了。189. It requires hard work to give off an appearance of effortlessness. 你必须十分努力,才能看起来毫不费力。190. Life is like riding a bicycle.To keep your balance,you must keep moving. 人生就像骑单车,只有不断前进,才能保持平衡。(爱因斯坦) 191. Be thankful for what you have.You'll end up having more. 拥有一颗感恩的心,最终你会得到更多。192. Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. 美是一种内心的感觉,并反映在你的眼睛里。(索菲亚·罗兰) 193. Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows. 朋友的作用,就是让你快乐加倍,痛苦减半。194. When you long for something sincerely, the whole world will help you. 当你真心渴望某样东西时,整个宇宙都会来帮忙。     When Paul Jobs was mustered out of the Coast Guard after World War II, he made a wager with his crewmates. They had arrived in San Francisco, where their ship was decommissioned, and Paul bet that he would find himself a wife within two weeks. He was a taut, tattooed engine mechanic, six feet tall, with a passing resemblance to James Dean. But it wasn’t his looks that got him a date with Clara Hagopian, a sweet-humored daughter of Armenian immigrants. It was the fact that he and his friends had a car, unlike the group she had originally planned to go out with that evening. Ten days later, in March 1946, Paul got engaged to Clara and won his wager. It would turn out to be a happy marriage, one that lasted until death parted them more than forty years later. Paul Reinhold Jobs had been raised on a dairy farm in Germantown, Wisconsin. Even though his father was an alcoholic and sometimes abusive, Paul ended up with a gentle and calm disposition under his leathery exterior. After dropping out of high school, he wandered through the Midwest picking up work as a mechanic until, at age nineteen, he joined the Coast Guard, even though he didn’t know how to swim. He was deployed on the USS General M. C. Meigs and spent much of the war ferrying troops to Italy for General Patton. His talent as a machinist and fireman earned him commendations, but he occasionally found himself in minor trouble and never rose above the rank of seaman. Clara was born in New Jersey, where her parents had landed after fleeing the Turks in Armenia, and they moved to the Mission District of San Francisco when she was a child. She had a secret that she rarely mentioned to anyone: She had been married before, but her husband had been killed in the war. So when she met Paul Jobs on that first date, she was primed to start a new life. Like many who lived through the war, they had experienced enough excitement that, when it was over, they desired simply to settle down, raise a family, and lead a less eventful life. They had little money, so they moved to Wisconsin and lived with Paul’s parents for a few years, then headed for Indiana, where he got a job as a machinist for International Harvester. His passion was tinkering with old cars, and he made money in his spare time buying, restoring, and selling them. Eventually he quit his day job to become a full-time used car salesman. Clara, however, loved San Francisco, and in 1952 she convinced her husband to move back there. They got an apartment in the Sunset District facing the Pacific, just south of Golden Gate Park, and he took a job working for a finance company as a “repo man,” picking the locks of cars whose owners hadn’t paid their loans and repossessing them. He also bought, repaired, and sold some of the cars, making a decent enough living in the process. There was, however, something missing in their lives. They wanted children, but Clara had suffered an ectopic pregnancy, in which the fertilized egg was implanted in a fallopian tube rather than the uterus, and she had been unable to have any. So by 1955, after nine years of marriage, they were looking to adopt a child. Like Paul Jobs, Joanne Schieble was from a rural Wisconsin family of German heritage. Her father, Arthur Schieble, had immigrated to the outskirts of Green Bay, where he and his wife owned a mink farm and dabbled successfully in various other businesses, including real estate and photoengraving. He was very strict, especially regarding his daughter’s relationships, and he had strongly disapproved of her first love, an artist who was not a Catholic. Thus it was no surprise that he threatened to cut Joanne off completely when, as a graduate student at the University of Wisconsin, she fell in love with Abdulfattah “John” Jandali, a Muslim teaching assistant from Syria. Jandali was the youngest of nine children in a prominent Syrian family. His father owned oil refineries and multiple other businesses, with large holdings in Damascus and Homs, and at one point pretty much controlled the price of wheat in the region. His mother, he later said, was a “traditional Muslim woman” who was a “conservative, obedient housewife.” Like the Schieble family, the Jandalis put a premium on education. Abdulfattah was sent to a Jesuit boarding school, even though he was Muslim, and he got an undergraduate degree at the American University in Beirut before entering the University of Wisconsin to pursue a doctoral degree in political science. In the summer of 1954, Joanne went with Abdulfattah to Syria. They spent two months in Homs, where she learned from his family to cook Syrian dishes. When they returned to Wisconsin she discovered that she was pregnant. They were both twenty-three, but they decided not to get married. Her father was dying at the time, and he had threatened to disown her if she wed Abdulfattah. Nor was abortion an easy option in a small Catholic community. So in early 1955, Joanne traveled to San Francisco, where she was taken into the care of a kindly doctor who sheltered unwed mothers, delivered their babies, and quietly arranged closed adoptions. Joanne had one requirement: Her child must be adopted by college graduates. So the doctor arranged for the baby to be placed with a lawyer and his wife. But when a boy was born—on February 24, 1955—the designated couple decided that they wanted a girl and backed out. Thus it was that the boy became the son not of a lawyer but of a high school dropout with a passion for mechanics and his salt-of-the-earth wife who was working as a bookkeeper. Paul and Clara named their new baby Steven Paul Jobs. When Joanne found out that her baby had been placed with a couple who had not even graduated from high school, she refused to sign the adoption papers. The standoff lasted weeks, even after the baby had settled into the Jobs household. Eventually Joanne relented, with the stipulation that the couple promise—indeed sign a pledge—to fund a savings account to pay for the boy’s college education. There was another reason that Joanne was balky about signing the adoption papers. Her father was about to die, and she planned to marry Jandali soon after. She held out hope, she would later来源:小兵说天下

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