萨古鲁：女性可以兼顾事业与家庭吗？丨视频

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Juhi Chawla: Today, many women in our modern society are stepping out and having a career and I just like to know, what do you think of this of women stepping out, being career people, managing home as well, being financially independent, is this good?

玖熹·查瓦拉：今天，很多女性在我们现代社会都走出家门，从事自己的事业。我想知道，您怎么看待这个现象。就是说，女性走出家门，成为职场人士，同时经营着家庭，经济独立，这样好吗？

Sadhguru: See every woman should do what she wants to do as an individual person. It should not be made into a trend in a society or the only right thing to do in the world because I think if… if a woman is intends to have two children and raise them, I think it’s a full time job. I’m not saying she should not go out and work. If she wishes to, as an individual person, she’s free to do what she wants to do.

Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：每个女性都应该做她自己想做的事情。不应该把这变成社会的一种潮流，或者是这世界上唯一正确的事。我认为，如果一个女性想要生两个孩子并抚养他们，我认为，这就是一份全职工作。我不是说，她不应该出去工作。如果她希望的话，作为一个个体，她有去做她想做的事情的自由。

But having two children is not about reproduction. You’re manufacturing the next generation of people. How the world will be tomorrow, will be determined by what kind of mothers you have today, believe me. So, why is it you know, I’ve seen many ladies coming to me and say, when I ask “What’re you doing?” “Oh I’m just a housewife.” I said, “Why do you say, you’re just a housewife?” You… you don’t u… seem to understand the significance of, you know, being able to nurture two or three new lives. It’s not… it’s not a ‘not important’ job. It’s a very important job.

但是有两个孩子并不是为了繁殖，你是在创造下一代的人类。这个世界明天会如何，取决于今天的母亲怎样，相信我。我见过许多女士，来找我说道，我问，“你在做什么？”“噢，我只是个家庭主妇。”我说，“你为什么要说，你只是个家庭主妇呢？”你似乎并不明白能够抚育两个或三个新生命的重要性。它不是“无关紧要”的工作。它是非常重要的工作。

I’ve to say this, you know my… my mother never said anything much. She never went about telling me, “I love you” or “You love me” or anything of this kind. It’s just that she simply lived and we… it never occurred to us, whether she loves us, she doesn’t love us, such questions never came because her whole life was dedicated to us, you know.

我得说，我的母亲从来不多言。她从来没对我说过“我爱你”、“你爱我”之类的话。她把她的爱完全活出来了，我们从来没想过她是否爱我们，是否不爱我们，这种问题从未出现，因为她的一生都奉献给了我们。

Juhi Chawla: Hmm.

玖熹·查瓦拉：嗯。

Sadhguru: We know she lived for us. She never said it once, but that’s all it is. And I cannot imagine that part of my life, without her being around. It is just that she never played an active role in what I am but the background that she set, without the ambience that she set for me¸ I would never be what I am, for sure.

Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：我们知道，她为我们而活着。她一次也没说过，但就是那样。我无法想象，没有她在身边，我的那段人生会是什么样。我成为今天这个样子，她从来没有在其中扮演过积极活跃的角色，但是没有她为我营造的那种环境和氛围，我永远不会成为今天的我，这是肯定的。

Whatever else may be within me, still the soil that she set around me, without ever interfering with who I am, what I am, just the ambience she set around me and the effort she took to set that ambience, she gave her life to set that ambience, knowing fully well it will play out somewhere. And why does anybody think this is not an important job? In my life, I feel what she did is the most important thing she did to me. And one of the most important things that have happened to me is early life you never had to think about anything. It was simply she made sure the background was simply always there, without a single thought about it, unconcerned about what’s happening around you is what gave me the possibility of sitting with my eyes closed for days on end. Otherwise, this wouldn’t be possible, I’m saying (Laughs).

无论我的内在还有什么，她为我营造的成长环境，从不干涉我，只是为我营造氛围，她努力地营造那种氛围，她用她的生命营造那种氛围，非常清楚它会给我们带来影响。为什么人们会觉得这不是重要的工作呢？在我的人生中，我感觉她所做的就是对我来说最重要的事。在我身上发生的最重要的一件事是，人生的早期，我从来不必考虑任何事情。她会确保这样的背景一直在那里，一点儿都不用考虑，不必为我身边发生的事情而担忧，而这才让我有可能一连数日闭目静坐，否则，这事是不可能的（笑）。

So, career - I want you to understand, right now because we have made the whole world into economics, unfortunately women also getting as stupid as men. As if how much money you earn is going to determine the value of your life. No, it is just procurement of things that you need, money is just about that. Man was procuring, woman was taking about the more beautiful aspects of life. Now woman also wants to procure. If there is such an economic need in the family, fine she must do it. But it is not a compulsive need, it must not be set up as something better to do than doing something.

所以，事业——我想让你明白，现在，我们让整个世界都围绕着经济打转，不幸的是，女人也变得和男人一样愚蠢。就好像是，你赚多少钱将决定你生命的价值。不是的，钱只能用来买你需要的东西，钱只是那个（用途）。以前，男人在外面挣，女人则关注生活中更美好的一面。现在，女人也想去外面挣。如果家里有这样的经济需求，那好，她必须去做。但这不是强制性的需求，不应该认为挣钱要比做其它事情更好。

If she sings so if she… if she plays music or if she just loves her children or if she cooks beautifully or she just lives beautifully like a flower, it’s good enough, I’m saying. It is not necessary that only if she earns this much money, she’s… her… she’s doing something valuable, otherwise she’s not. If there’s an economic need, she can do it. Or if she has a passion for doing it, she can do it. But, let not such values be set up in the world because you’re not evolving, you’re regressing, you’re making survival more important than aesthetics of life.

如果她唱歌，弹奏音乐，或者只是爱着自己的孩子，或者炒得一手好菜，或者就像花儿一样美丽地活着，这就足够好了。不应该认为一个女人只有赚钱，她才在做有价值的事。否则她就没价值。如果有经济需求，她可以去做。或者如果她有去做这种事情的热情，那么她可以去做。但是我们不要把这变成这个世界的价值观。（这样的话），你就没有在进化，而是在退化，因为你把追求生存变得比生命的美更重要了。

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