萨古鲁：如何培养孩子的天赋？丨视频

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Questioner: I read your book, it was amazing. And what caught my eye and what I was amazed that early…you know when you were a child, you realized that you have those powers and you started really going deeper and meditating, you know, someone actually taught you how to meditate and go through that. What do you do with a child that you know is that deep and I do have a child like that, and sometimes I wanna push her towards - this is right - but I'm actually, I am a huge believer in what you actually taught.

提问者：我读了您的书，它真令人惊叹。吸引我眼球并让我惊奇的是早先......您知道，在您还是孩子的时候，您认识到您有这样的能力，您开始确实进一步深入并冥想，实际上有人教您如何冥想，如何经历那一切。对那么聪慧的孩子您会做什么？我确实有个那样的孩子，有时候我想督促她——这样比较正确——但我的确是对您实际上所教导的非常相信。

Sadhguru: We must understand this - a child is not an industrial product. A child is a life, a fresh life. You are supposed to nurture this life. It’s not that you put it through some kind of an industrial process called a school. It’s like an industry. Everybody is taught the same damn thing. Everybody is supposed to go through the same thing and come out the same way and find a job and serve something somewhere. This is not what human life is about. There is an innate genius in every human being. Do we have the patience and the commitment and the dedication to pay the necessary attention to bring that out in a specific human being? That’s a big question. Otherwise, you will produce dumplings (Few laugh). All the same. Okay (Laughs)?  So, once you have a child…Before you have a child you must understand, a child means a twenty-year project full-on - that is, if they do well. If they don’t do well, it’s a life-long project (Laughter). Because it’s a life, one life may blossom at twelve, another may blossom at forty. Do you have the patience to nurture that life?

Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：我们必须清楚这一点——孩子不是工业产品。孩子是一个生命、一个鲜活的生命。你应该滋养这个生命，而不是让其经历所谓学校的某种工业化流程，学校就像个产业。人人都学习同样的该死的东西。每个人必须经历同样的事情，毕业时变得整齐划一，找份工作，在某个地方供职。人的生命不在于此，每个人都有天赋。我们是否有耐心、决心和奉献精神以提供必要的关注来激发一个人的这种天赋？这是个大问题。否则，你只会生产出饺子，所有的孩子都一模一样。好吗？所以，一旦你有了孩子......在你生孩子之前，你必须明白，孩子是个二十年的项目，随时待命——前提是如果一切顺利。如果不顺利，那就是个终身项目。因为这是一个生命，有的生命可能在十二岁的时候绽放，有的生命可能在四十岁的时候绽放，你有耐心去滋养那个生命吗？

Or have you already set a thing by the time you finish your high school, you must be in this university, that university, you must be doing this or that, it’s all fixed up – common prescription for all life. This’s what we are doing. This is supposed to be civilization. This’s not civilization; this is just escape from life. We want to escape the fundamental process of life. In tribal societies and other traditional societies even today, nobody expects a man or a woman has to become like this at a certain time. Depending on each life how they progress, everybody is valued for who they are. If you plant this chrysanthemum in your house, in three months it’s full of flower. If you plant an oak tree, eight years ten years nothing happens (Few laugh). So, you want to chop it down? Hello? None of them would be, if you went by these standards. “See, this one how well it is doing! In three months how many flowers. You fool, you're doing nothing.” This is not the way to handle life, isn’t it? This’s not an industrial product. So…
或者你已经安排好了，你上完高中必须上这个大学、那个大学，你必须做这个、干那个，一切都规定好了——所有生命都是同样的流程，这就是我们正在做的。这被称为文明。这不是文明，这只是逃避生命。我们想要逃避生命的基本过程。在部落社会或其它传统社会，直到今天，都没有人期望一个人到了一定时间必须变成什么样。根据每个生命的进程，每个人都有自己的价值。如果你把这菊花种在家里，三个月后它就会开满花。如果你种一棵橡树，十年八年，什么都没有，那么你想把它砍了吗？哈喽？如果你以这些（菊花）为标准，它们（橡树）都没得活了。“看这个，它表现多好！三个月就开了这么多花儿。你这个笨蛋，你什么也不干。”这不是对待生命的方式，不是吗？这不是工业产品。所以......

I know there are other compulsions in the society, various limitations; keeping all those in mind, fundamentally we must understand life needs nurture, atmosphere - not fixing, nothing to be fixed about it. It just needs an atmosphere, where it will flourish best. What grows in southern California will not grow in Minnesota, isn’t it? That kind of life needs that kind of atmosphere, that kind of nurture, only then it’ll happen. So, this is something that we have to pay attention to. There is no involvement. We have… we want everything readymade. We are looking at a readymade solution. There’s no readymade solution to life. Life can only happen with enormous involvement, there is simply no other way to do it. Where there is no involvement there is no experience of life, isn’t it? Hello?

我知道社会有其它的要求，各种限制，把这些都记在心里。最重要的是，我们必须明白生命需要滋养、氛围——而不是规定，它没有什么好规定的。它只是需要一种氛围，在这种氛围中它才能茁壮成长，不是吗？那样的生命需要那样的氛围、那样的滋养，只有这样它才会绽放。所以，这一点我们必须注意，没有投入，我们......我们想要一切都是现成的，我们想要现成的解决方案，而生命没有现成的解决方案。生命只有全情投入才能绽放，除此以外没有其它办法。没有投入，就没有生命体验，不是吗？哈喽？

Participants: Yes.

参加者：是的。

Sadhguru: Whether it’s a simple food that you eat or something that you look at or whom you live with or what you do or that… the highest level whatever you do in your life, without involvement there is no life. But right now, modern societies are trying to do life with information, not with involvement. This is a big mistake. You have no information about your child. You can go to all the variety of doctors and get all their ideas about what your child is, all you’ll… all they will tell you is that he is sick in a hundred different ways, okay (Laughs)? No, you don’t need information about your child. You need involvement. With involvement you’ll bring that life to its best. It need not be as good as somebody else or as bad as somebody else because it’s a unique life. Is there one life like another?

Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：不管是你吃的简单食物，或者你看的东西，或者与你生活的人，或者你做的事，或者你在人生中做到最高水平的，无论什么，如果没有投入，就没有生命。但是现在，现代社会试图用信息而不是投入来面对生命，这是个大错。关于你的孩子，你没有信息。你可以去看各种各样的医生，了解他们对你孩子的看法，你只会......他们只会告诉你，你的孩子得了这病那病、一百种病，好吗？不，你不需要关于你孩子的信息。你需要投入，有了投入，你就会将那个生命带到它最好的状态。它不必跟别人一样好，或者跟别人一样差，因为它是独一无二的生命，有哪个生命和另一个生命是一样的？

Participants: No.

参加者：没有。

Sadhguru: It’s a unique life. So, but from…right from day one we are comparing it to another life and trying to make it like that one. This is a very cruel process for the child. A child never understands what the hell the parents want (Laughter). I never understood. Nobody ever explained to me why the hell I should go to the school. So I never went (Laughter). Because nobody explained to me why I have to go to school. They said, “No, no, you have to go to school.” Why? I'm doing fine (Laughter). Why should I go to school? No, because we think information is going to transform us. No, information facilitates a few things, but it’s involvement which transforms us, isn’t it? Absolute involvement it some... in something, it doesn’t matter what it is. Total involvement with something, suddenly you find that human being is of a different nature, isn’t it? So, that’s all it takes. Involvement (Applause).

Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：它是独一无二的生命。所以，但是从......从第一天起，我们就把它与别的生命比较，并且试图让它也变得像那个生命一样，这对孩子来说是一个非常残酷的过程。孩子从未明白家长到底想要什么，我就从来没明白过，没人跟我解释过我到底为什么应该上学，所以我从来不去上学，因为没人跟我解释我为什么必须去上学。他们说：“不，不，你必须去上学。”为什么？我过得挺好，我为什么应该去上学？不，因为我们认为信息可以转化我们。不，信息促进了一些事情，但是只有投入才能转化我们，不是吗？绝对投入......投入某件事，是什么都没关系。完全投入于某个东西，突然你就会发现那个人变得与众不同，不是吗？所以，这就是它所需要的一切。投入。